Hello everyone,,
I have been married for 9 years with a wife who has always been bi-curious. Before we met she had experimented by making out with her girlfriend. She once had a girl try to please her but she said she had got embarrassed in the middle of it and left. She has mentioned it many times and during sex she always wants for me to talk to her about me being having sex with another woman. This seems to be the fantasy that gets her to orgasm. She had me take her to a strip club a few times and went crazy with lap dances. The issue is she still seems very insecure. I recently got her a boob job because she has always wanted larger ones. I hoped that this would help her insecurities. She even stated that when her boobs healed she might even feel comfortable enough to have me and another woman play with them.

Seems she always talks about a threesome and at one point had her girlfriend surprise me for my birthday but it was interupted due to so unexpected guests.
I can't seem to get her to pull the trigger on this. What ideas would you have to make this happen.

1. Act very disinterested in our sex life and have her use this idea to try to restart our sex life?
2. Tell her she is the only one for me and maybe she will be secure enough that she absolutely knows I would stay with her afterwards?
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What could you suggest?

Thanks

Ken

Ken UR in a tough situation here...... U have been very understanding....very thoughtful.....very patient.........
U know my feelings?............I feel when the "right" female comes along and u both make your wife feel so hot, so adored, she may well 'forget' her hangups......
I think it best u still continue with your compliments at how sexy and delicious she is..............and let time heal.......
Do not "act" any particular way...........be YOU .....the man she adores........and continue to support her..............
Good Luck to both of u ! xxxxxxxx boo